已经晚间11:09PM了, 老大正站在客厅里训老二, 因为老二拉琴不认真, 想糊弄了事, 被老大逮到. 先是一大通的说教, 说的老二痛哭流涕.
然后, 他光个膀子当指挥, 指挥着泪流满面的老二重拉, 一遍又一遍, 我实在受不了那搀杂着哭声的琴声, 想上去干预一下, 被老大给轰回来: 妈妈, 别过来, 别听到哭声就受不了, 那样的话, 他就会用哭来当武器.
11:30PM了, 我是进退两难, 哭声断断续续的, 琴声也断断续续的, 老大还是不放过老二, 纠正着, 督促着, 鼓励着, 不管老二眼泪多多, 就是不放过他, 每个NOTES, 每个音调......"累了? 歇一会儿, 接着来....."
老大真是太霸道, 可老二吃他这一套, 如果是我, 早就撂挑子了.
"again, again, start lower"
"down bow"
"no, let's go, very close, you pass this line"
"much better, much much better, good, good"
"ok, cool, now let's play another line"
哭声停了, 终于.
11:45PM, 还在继续.
"do line 4 again"
"nice, nice, do line 3 and line 4 together"
"one more time"
我就在着记录着, 反正已经这样了, 索性就让他们GO THROUGH这个过程吧.
两个小的, 早已进入了梦想, 这哭声+琴声, 竟然也吵不醒他们.
我也被这霸道的老大和磨蹭的老二磨练着.
12点了, 刚过去干预一下, 老大一副不练好不罢休的尽头. 估计老二是拗不过老大的.
看着这驾式, 离老大的要求还有一段距离, 我就超BOSSY的调节了一下:
今天就到这里, 剩下的, 明天在练.
老大把闹钟定好: 早上9:30. 我严重怀疑他到时候能不能起床.
12:14, 睡觉去了.
7 comments:
你家长子如父,太省心了。。。
你们老大比老二大多少啊? 有权利这么管. 岂有此理. 我这个老二很不平呢:)
我家哥哥也总想管弟弟,不过没这么严格,可能是差得没那么多吧。
AAmom
越来越喜欢你们家老大啦!
有子如此,该多么满足!
你们看的时候, 可能觉得老大挺大哥的, 可是我当时坐在那里,看大光个膀子训老二, 感觉可是挺复杂的, 觉得老大太霸气, 有点不近人情, 少了点灵活性. 连米粒妈都说: "岂有此理, 我这个老二很不平呢:)", 我当时, 也有这样的感觉.
hmm...it is great the older one is so confident and stick to the rules, but would it put shadows on the second one? ...
Gigi, you are right, I think it does put some shadows on the second one, but, the only thing I can do is talk to both of them seperately the next day , let the oldest one know that he is too bossy, and let the second one know that whatever big brother does, is from love:-)
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